If a counselor finds herself treating a perpetrator of incest abuse and feels disturbed, what is her best response?

When a counselor finds herself in a situation that evokes strong personal feelings, especially when dealing with sensitive topics like incest abuse, it's crucial to prioritize both her well-being and the effectiveness of the therapeutic process. Referring the client to a counselor who is better equipped to handle the complexities of such cases helps ensure that the client receives the specialized care they need while allowing the counselor to maintain her professional integrity and mental health.

This approach acknowledges that not all counselors may feel comfortable or adequately skilled to address every situation, particularly those involving severe trauma or moral complexities. It shows a commitment to ethical practice by recognizing the limits of one's own expertise and the potential impact of unresolved emotions on the counseling relationship. Furthermore, ensuring the client is in the hands of someone who is more comfortable with the case ultimately serves the best interest of the client and their healing process.

In contrast, the other responses may compromise both the counselor's effectiveness and the client’s therapeutic journey. Ignoring personal feelings can lead to unresolved issues that may inadvertently affect the counseling dynamic. Confronting the client about their past, without the necessary comfort or skills, may lead to resistance or harm. Seeking therapy for herself can be beneficial, but it doesn't directly address the client's need for care in that moment,